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HOW I LOST MY JOB

HOW I LOST MY JOB (2016) The company's new managing director called me into his office. MD: Titi I'm very sure you're aware of the financial setback this company is facing and right now all hands ought to be on deck towards restructuring the company. Me: Yes Sir MD: Right now I need people that can get me ten million naira per month through marketing and the way I'm seeing you, you can't befriend those men that can put money into this business. Or can you? Me: No Sir MD: Well, I need those who can go to any length to get me that money. In that case your service is no longer needed here... I couldn't get another job for months until February when I got the teaching job, I was told I'm going to be paid an amount which is my previous salary divided by 3. I was already crying inside me, it was like a grace to grass story but man has gat no choice so I accepted it. I knew if I was to base my teaching on my salary it won't turn out well so I had to

SELF LOVE

From the creation story in Gen 1:26, we learnt God created man in his own image and likeness, no wonder the bible says in Ps 82:6 that "I have said, ye are gods; and all of you are children of the most high". On the 9th April in church the word SELF LOVE was dropped in my spirit and after meditating on it I got some revelation about it. Rom 5:8 "But God shows his Love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us", have you ever pondered on why God instructed Christ to die for us because of our sins. Why did he still love us despite our wicked ways. That was SELF LOVE in action, when God looks at us he sees Himself because he created us in his image and likeness. Despite our sins, He couldn't bring himself to hate us because he keeps seeing himself in us, no wonder he had to sacrifice his only begotten son for our sake. Eph 5:25 "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her". The church isn

MINDSET MAKEOVER

Crying Anthony has been knocking on the gate for the past 20 minutes, I asked him why he was crying and he told me the gate was locked and no one has answered him since he was knocking. I also tried pushing the gate severally but it was futile so I started knocking. After knocking for about 5 minutes a lady inside asked what I wanted and I told her Anthony needs to go in but the hate was locked. She told me the gate wasn't locked, on hearing that I pushed the gate and it opened immediately. I was stunned, this is the same gate I pushed 5 minutes ago why didn't it open then. It then dawn on me that my mindset was at fault. The first attempt, I pushed the gate with a mindset that it was locked and that was the result I got. On the second attempt I pushed the gate with a mindset that it was open and it turned out that way. I also noticed, the energy I put into use when pushing it the first time was less than the energy on the second attempt. If you were told that the busi

YES!!! MONEY GROWS ON TREES

We all must have heard it one way or the other that money grows on trees. I heard it first from my dad, I was so furious my dad hasn't paid my party fee. I cried and told him I must attend it and he replied saying "DO YOU THINK MONEY GROWS ON TREES". I also have said it to those who request for an amount of money I can't afford. Few weeks ago I came to realise that money do really grow on trees. The first step to growing money is BELIEVE (FAITH), believe is the best soil for growing money. It has lots of nutrient that would aid rapid and healthy growth of money. When you make believe your soil, you are positive you would yield a bountiful harvest. The second step is PERSISTENCE, just like you water your crops daily you also need to be persistent in life if you desire a bountiful harvest. Persistence should be a daily thing, never get tired of it. The third step is your SOURCE, how connected are you to the right source would determine if you would get the neede

UNDERSTANDING the way to PERFECTION

Perfect sontin!!! I want a perfect job, husband,wife, boyfriend,girlfriend, I want to be perfect. These are demands we make daily. You can't get a perfect sontin, job, husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend... These are answers we get when we ask for the above. What exactly is perfection? Though the dictionary defined it as without fault, weakness, to be complete, exact and correct But in the actual sense understanding comes before perfection There is actually no perfect human on earth, but there perfect humans on earth if understanding is placed first. Perfection to me is "knowing the fault, weakness, lack... Of a person, thing, job or yourself, understanding it is already a part of them and deciding those you can change and those that can't be changed, then seeing the person, thing, job or yourself as perfect. For someone or something to be perfect You must have listed out their weakness and faults. Note those you can change and work on them Note those you can

WHAT'S YOUR PRIORITY

Dear Teen, It is normal as a guy to be attracted to a girl because she's pretty, has nice curves, intelligent, has lovely hair e.t.c. As a girl it is also normal to be attracted to a guy because he's neat, a bad boy, tall, handsome, intelligent etc. Everyone has something irresistible that attracts then to the opposite sex. It is also normal to also wish you could cuddle yourself, be in a relationship, kiss, show off to friends etc. So many even go to an extend of dreaming they are married to the person with kids. The difference between that pregnant teen and you is SELF CONTROL. The only reason you don't have a boyfriend and not pregnant is SELF CONTROL. The only reason you don't have a girlfriend and haven't impregnated anyone is SELF CONTROL. BUT SELF CONTROL HAS GOT STAGES. Maybe the reason you could control yourself is because the opposite sex hadn't made any moves yet. It could be you've not gotten a chance away from your parents. There wh

TRAINING A CHILD

Its no longer news that children aren't trained in the way they ought to go but in the way their parents deem it fit for them to go. Before a child is born, parents have concluded on the path/career of the child and when he is born, he has no option than follow their path like a dummy least the society tags him a disobedient child. I was discussing with a couple days ago and I raised the topic of training a child. I told them children should in the way they should go not the way their parents want them to go. I was taken aback by their response "So we should allow him become wayward abi, he should do whatever he wants to do..." Pro 22:6 "Train up a child IN THE WAY HE SHOULD GO and when he is old he won't depart from it." IN THE WAY HE SHOULD GO not IN THE WAY YOU WANT HIM TO GO. Let me explain better with this illustration. A pencil marker was invented for the purpose of colouring drawings on paper, you bought it and without reading the manual yo

THE MOSQUITO TALE

A mosquito named Garle went in search of blood, he entered a room and a minute later people there started jamming their hands in a bid to kill it. Garle mistook the act for praises, he left with joy and returned the next day just because he wants to be praised. Garle forgot his main aim of going out, he forgot about food rather he digested the praises he received. Garle went out as usual, feeling comfortable with his new environment and the praises he received, rather than flying he stayed on the bed and watched waiting for when the applause would be rendered to him but poor Garle didn't see it coming. The same hand that clapped for him killed him that day. Interesting story right Where you able to pick some lessons from the story. I did Read below 1) Have a goal, set your eyes always on the goal, remind yourself always of the goal. 2) Distractions would always set in, but don't give way to the distractions. 3) Not all who praise you mean well, some actually pray for

DIRECTION to your LOCATION

I can't sleep, I rolled on the bed, closed my eyes a thousand times but still no sleep. I can hear the voice clearly, it wouldn't stop speaking so I decided to write it down. You were invited to a party and was told to be there in time since the party would end by 4pm. The venue of the party is unknown to you so is the direction and you didn't speak. You got to know so many others were invited to a party thou you're not so sure its the same party but you convinced yourself the direction should be the same. Friends and family guessed the venue of the party so they too gave you directions. You still didn't deem it fit to ask the one who invited you the venue and direction to the party. "Persin no fit lose for Nija now" you told your naive self. It is the d-day, you set out with friends and family based on their directions. You got to the party but they wouldn't let you enter. "This isn't your party" they tell you. You check the ti

ARE YOU CONNECTED

On Tuesday I had to charge my phone with my laptop since the head of my charger got spoilt. My cord was connected to my laptop and to my phone, I turned my laptop on but my phone refused to charge. I thought the cord was faulty, so I changed the position but it still wasn't charging, I then decided to check my phone. When I checked my phone I noticed the phone wasn't connected to the cord, I fixed it and it started charging. It then occurred to me that the reason majority of us aren't growing is because we are not connected to the right source. What does it mean to be connected? It means to be fixed to a source which adds or diminish your growth(My definition) Just like I thought my phone was connected and wondered why it wasn't charging, majority of us think we are rightly connected but we have no growth to show for it. There is no way you would be rightly connected and have no growth to show for it. If you notice your level of growth last year is still the sam

VALUE YOURSELF

Thinking about my junior secondary schools days This handsome guy in my class wrote on the black board "Titi is the most beautiful girl in class" I was overjoyed, I felt on top of the world, I blushed. I walked with pride for a long time. I even made sure I never changed my hairdo. chai!!! I cried the day I learnt he left our school, who would make me feel good about myself? I was going through a lot at home, I felt I wasn't good enough, I felt I wasn't useful, I thought I was so ugly, I hated myself. Now you know why I was so happy when he declared my beauty! Thinking about that incident it became clearer why people get deceived easily. Imagine a child who was introduced into a world of hatred, imagine a child who have been made to believe they worth nothing. Imagine someone shows them a bit of love, what happens? They become so happy and eager to explore this new world and that's where rape, drug abuse and others comes in. Until you learn

HAPPINESS the best medicine

Today our Pastor preached on happiness the best medicine, he talked about the benefits of happiness. I so much enjoyed the sermon because i could relate with it. Few years ago I use to hate myself, I hardly saw reasons to smile. Don't you try laughing or gisting beside me because my countenance would change thinking I am the reason for the discussion. I started having issues with my heart I couldn't sleep without putting a wet cloth on my chest. I feared I might have a heart attack because I was always thinking. I hardly slept, I do cry for no reason. To sum it up I HATED MYSELF I found myself in the University and I decided to start a new life there, I made new friends. I learnt to love myself I would look at myself in the mirror and sing my praise. I just decided to be happy no matter what happens I decided to reduce the rate at which I think Wetin wan happen go happen And to God be the glory the heart issues stopped, I became light inside The diffe

LESSONS OF LIFE FROM AN EXPRESS ROAD

was seated in the BRT bus on Monday and i decided to peep through the windows, and to my greatest surprise i was given a complete view of life. Most times inspirations comes from things or people we least expect, the view of the under bride road gave me a complete different view about life. Now before I list the views I got I would want to point out the following scenario that takes place on the express road. We are familiar with the way cars race past and are only stopped by traffic which rarely occurs We also are familiar with the way those guys selling stuffs on the road try to catch up with some vehicles so as to sell their wares. Am sure you’ve also witness where a gala seller sells gala to someone in a car and before he can collects his money the vehicle races off. I also realized we only buy from those who are fast enough to get to vehicle even while it is moving Have you also noticed those super swift guys who run faster than Usain Bolt just to sell

IF LIFE ISN'T FAIR. BLEACH IT

am so sure you went ha ha ha ha when you saw this funny title, yeah!!! i thought so too when i got the inspiration to write on it but after i meditated on it, everything became very very clear. majority of us are fond of complaining, nagging, crying and shouting LIFE ISN'T FAIR!!!, just because you lost your loved ones, failed an examination, had a break-up or lost a job opportunity. am sure you would be expecting me to write on how to bleach life since it isn't fair, but dearie just as i wouldn't advice you to use a bleaching cream, i won't also advice you to bleach your life. some of us are black, dudu, brown, red, chocolate, fair, yellow, afi e.t.c in complexion, that was just the way we were created. it wasn't our choice to make, but rather to love. irrespective of the complexion you are, it is expected of you to love yourself. i wonder why so many people love bleaching their colors, they want to become fair because they think fairness if beauty. you

DON'T GIVE ROOM FOR FAILURE 2

in my last post i wrote about how we have given failure room in our lives and the repercussion. i also talked about how to give the right of ownership to success so that failure won't be the owner anymore. so in today's post i would be continuing from my last post which would be very brief. i talked about giving your room to success so that failure would have no choice but to squat or leave your life. now the beauty of this is SUCCESS HAS FRIENDS. you can remember i said i allowed my friend squat with me because i trusted her and also because she is my friend. a lot of people actually begged to squat with me but because they were strangers whom i couldn't vouch for their character i turned them down. That is exactly what happens when you give the room to success. SUCCESS doesn't trust FAILURE, they are no friends at all. so do you actually think success would actually allow failure into your life HELL NO!!!! success has friends who are begging to squat with

DON'T GIVE ROOM FOR FAILURE

on my way home yesterday this just popped into my thought ( DON'T GIVE ROOM FOR FAILURE). i later got a deep insight into that and i decided to make it our topic for today. you know back then in school i was among those were allocated hostels by the school but a friend of mine wasn't given. she then approached me and asked to squat with me which i agreed because i actually trusted her and had no issues with her. when she started staying with me she met certain rules and regulations which she was forced to abide by since it was my room and she was just a squatter. am so sure if she had her own room she wouldn't abide by rules but since i own the room she had no choice. you would agree with me that if you should go spend some days with a friend or family member you would have to adjust to their lifestyle there, and if you know you can't adjust you would just have to quit staying with them. now the point am trying to make here it that so many of us have given f

UNDERSTANDING YOUR DESTINY HELPER

everyone knows a destiny helper is that person who helps you achieve your destiny. i absolutely agree with that but looking at our understanding of destiny helpers i noticed a gap which i intend to bridge with this post. before i proceed i would want to appreciate the foundation of this post which is the HOLY SPIRIT a destiny helper is a person, an event, occurrence targeted at pushing us to our destiny. majority of us believe destiny helpers are those who invest into your dreams or support you financially. it is actually deeper than that and because we don't really understand them we fail to recognise it when God sends us one. to make this posts clearer we would be studying some very popular bible characters as our case study JOSEPH: we are all familiar with the story of Joseph, his dreams, and how he became prime minister. now i hope your are aware that Pharaoh wasn't his destiny helper in any way. his brothers betrayal, potiphar's wife, Pharaoh&