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A story of my confused state

  2018, I moved to Ogun state and had to seek employment in a school within my vicinity. As a Lagos teacher, I was used to a vibrant class, swift answers and mushy acts by my students. So I resumed at my new work place with that fully charged energy. The first day got me confused. I was to teach the primary classes, I started my class and it was obvious these children were not following. They could neither understand what I was saying nor did they show any bit of interest. It was then I knew I had to start from the scratch. First, I had to create a connection. I wanted them to understand that I am first their friend. I needed to set the foundation that they can have both a friend and teacher in one. After that, I came down to their level. I made them feel and appreciate every little progress they made. I built up their interest in education. We worked together, applying several strategies I discovered and created, and within some month the growth was evident. Eureka is a book that ...
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UNDERSTANDING the way to PERFECTION

Perfect sontin!!! I want a perfect job, husband,wife, boyfriend,girlfriend, I want to be perfect. These are demands we make daily.

You can't get a perfect sontin, job, husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend... These are answers we get when we ask for the above.

What exactly is perfection?
Though the dictionary defined it as without fault, weakness, to be complete, exact and correct
But in the actual sense understanding comes before perfection
There is actually no perfect human on earth, but there perfect humans on earth if understanding is placed first.

Perfection to me is "knowing the fault, weakness, lack... Of a person, thing, job or yourself, understanding it is already a part of them and deciding those you can change and those that can't be changed, then seeing the person, thing, job or yourself as perfect.

For someone or something to be perfect
You must have listed out their weakness and faults.
Note those you can change and work on them
Note those you can't change and decide either to live with it.

A couple who has been married for years where asked how they coped with each other.
They replied that their marriage has been a perfect one because they have understood their weakness and worked on those they could change and ignored the rest, and with that they see each other as perfect.

Jesus Christ actually might not be perfect from the human eyes, he was from a poor home, he had no girlfriends, he was the over serious type etc but we call Him perfect/He is seen as perfect because we understand the purpose for His presence on earth made it so, if he had done some playplay He might have missed it.

I can boldly say am perfect because I know my weakness and faults, I have worked on those I can change and have decided to live with the rest.
I might not be perfect to you because you haven't studied me and understood my ways.

There are certain faults that can't be changes, example is physical disabilities.
You don't base an individual's perfection on the above because they can't change it.

Understanding is the best proven way to perfection.

I am perfect but if tomorrow boo comes and says there are certain things am not doing right and need to change, he can work on me and change them.

You're not perfect if the faults you have are those you can change but have failed in working on them.

You can be perfect
Apply understanding today
#JesusTibab

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Unknown said…
hmmmn you are doing a good one dear....*muahh*
make sure u catch it ooo
2 March 2017 at 04:09
Miss Dairo said…
I sure did catch it. Thank you.
6 March 2017 at 02:23
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