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A story of my confused state

  2018, I moved to Ogun state and had to seek employment in a school within my vicinity. As a Lagos teacher, I was used to a vibrant class, swift answers and mushy acts by my students. So I resumed at my new work place with that fully charged energy. The first day got me confused. I was to teach the primary classes, I started my class and it was obvious these children were not following. They could neither understand what I was saying nor did they show any bit of interest. It was then I knew I had to start from the scratch. First, I had to create a connection. I wanted them to understand that I am first their friend. I needed to set the foundation that they can have both a friend and teacher in one. After that, I came down to their level. I made them feel and appreciate every little progress they made. I built up their interest in education. We worked together, applying several strategies I discovered and created, and within some month the growth was evident. Eureka is a book that cove

MY TALENT, MY PRIDE(MASTURBATION)

we discussed self esteem in my previous post
now as per my discussion we would be considering the dangers of low self esteem
there  are so many sins which the devil has packaged alongside low self esteem whereby the moment you give room for low self esteem every other sins rolls in;
1. Masturbation
2. Envy
3. stealing
4. Murder
5. sexual immorality
6. depression e.t.c

MASTURBATION
we would be considering one of the sins called masturbation, which is one of the products of low self esteem.
masturbation is the act of touching one's private parts with the use of the hand or any-other sex object so as to derive pleasure.
masturbation is one of the devilish tools used by the devil to draw souls to his kingdom, he tells you it isn't wrong because you are the one doing the touching and not someone else.  when the bible was talking about virginity until marriage,it isn't only talking about not having sex. when you touch your private parts you have lost your virginity and have been drawn to the devil.

it has been discovered that most people who engage in masturbation are those with low self esteem, they feel alone even when in the mist of friends.  they love been alone, they don't derive pleasure from the normal activities of their mates because they have belittled themselves, they find masturbation a great source of pleasure thus giving way for the devil.

now you might ask why masturbation is wrong
1. it is done in secret, most evil acts are done in public. no one comes out openly to masturbate because they know it is wrong.
2. no one can proudly say I DO MASTURBATE because they know it is bad
3. masturbation is seen as a substitute for sex, since sex ought to be before marriage the devil found a good option MASTURBATION so my dear it is from the devil, and once you do things that are of the devil you are separated from God.

That the reason you feel guilty after masturbating because it is EVIL, now just feeling remorseful isn't the way outta masturbation because rather than been delivered from it you would grow into it.
masturbation denies one from exhibiting his/her talents because it makes you feel guilty that you're not worth been alive, it makes you see yourself as useless and not worth anything.

but i have good news for you MASTURBATION CAN BE STOPPED and i would be discussing that in my next post. till then i remain #Jesustibab

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